Zoom News : Jul 22, 2021, 03:09 PM
Sometimes there is a cheat in the relationship which can not be forgotten throughout life. A woman named New Zealand's Lily in the 'Divors Diary' column of Relationship Portal has shared its similar story which is surprised to hear. Lili said that from the age of 25, his boyfriend Max was aspiring to become father. Max was not a brother and sister and she always wanted a big family. Lily wrote, "Max often used to talk about that at least three children. However, I was never so excited about the children but I had also thought that after coming time, I would definitely think about it because Max will prove to be a very good father. At the age of 28, we got married but I decided to give 2 years to my career. We both decided after 32 years old we will try for the child. '
'Although I had to remind me of Max repeatedly about this decision because whenever he sees a small child somewhere, it becomes curious. After 32 years we started Family Planning. Even after trying for a year, I was not able to pregnant. My sister who is a doctor, she told me that I am taking a lot of pressure and I should try without tension. "
'We have a Holiday plan to stay away from stress. I slowly started getting tension free and Max also did not talk about the children. After all, after 16 months I found that both of us were waiting. Most I was excited to see Max's reaction. When I told Max to be my pregnant, he embraced me and said that this is good news. After this he went to work some work in the general way. It was a little surprised for me because Max was just a few years ago for children. ''There was always a picture about my pregnancy in my mind that Max is going to ultrasound with me, it is massaging my feet when tired and repeatedly keeping my stomach on my stomach. . However, this picture was exactly the opposite. To walk to the doctor, Max had to say repeatedly. He used to be busy at work all the time and he used to go to the gym or friends. ' 'After all, when Max came home late at night, I did not go and I asked about this behavior. I said that for so many years, he was troubled about the child and when I pregnant then why is he not showing any interest? After this, the answer given by Max was a sharp shock. Max said that he does not want a child now and realized that he was late. When these things were happening among us, I had a seven months pregnant. Two months of Age I was absolutely blurred. '
'How did he pass my night, I did not understand myself. The next day Max said that he wants to leave the house. I thought he probably needs a break and he will return to apologize in a few days. I did not tell anyone about this for a week but after passing time, I gave his younger sister informed about this. He came to me on the same day. Max's sister also had to say that she will return to myself in a few days. But it did not happen.''Max's sister was with me at the time of delivery. He told Max on the phone that our daughter has happened. He said that he will return soon, but after the news came to Koreona, he has avoided his plan. After a few weeks it came to know that he has got a good job in Australia and he has shifted there. I was still not sure that all this has happened to me. I was afraid of Single Mother's name. 'Standing with his family lily in the absence of Max. Lily wrote, "Max has messed up at 3 o'clock in one day at night that I think I got a big mistake. He apologized for himself. However, some common friends came to know that he is a girlfriend and he now lives with him. This whole time has been like a nightmare for me. The reason for my life is just my daughter. '
'I searched about such women on Google many nights whose husband left them when he was pregnant. I wanted to know if I am the first woman who has done something like that. I got to read many of my friends. ' Lily says that he is not sharing his story because his husband should come back, but wants to tell other women going through these circumstances that they are not alone. Lily says that good counselors and friends can come out of such a situation and in the end it starts recovering.
'Although I had to remind me of Max repeatedly about this decision because whenever he sees a small child somewhere, it becomes curious. After 32 years we started Family Planning. Even after trying for a year, I was not able to pregnant. My sister who is a doctor, she told me that I am taking a lot of pressure and I should try without tension. "
'We have a Holiday plan to stay away from stress. I slowly started getting tension free and Max also did not talk about the children. After all, after 16 months I found that both of us were waiting. Most I was excited to see Max's reaction. When I told Max to be my pregnant, he embraced me and said that this is good news. After this he went to work some work in the general way. It was a little surprised for me because Max was just a few years ago for children. ''There was always a picture about my pregnancy in my mind that Max is going to ultrasound with me, it is massaging my feet when tired and repeatedly keeping my stomach on my stomach. . However, this picture was exactly the opposite. To walk to the doctor, Max had to say repeatedly. He used to be busy at work all the time and he used to go to the gym or friends. ' 'After all, when Max came home late at night, I did not go and I asked about this behavior. I said that for so many years, he was troubled about the child and when I pregnant then why is he not showing any interest? After this, the answer given by Max was a sharp shock. Max said that he does not want a child now and realized that he was late. When these things were happening among us, I had a seven months pregnant. Two months of Age I was absolutely blurred. '
'How did he pass my night, I did not understand myself. The next day Max said that he wants to leave the house. I thought he probably needs a break and he will return to apologize in a few days. I did not tell anyone about this for a week but after passing time, I gave his younger sister informed about this. He came to me on the same day. Max's sister also had to say that she will return to myself in a few days. But it did not happen.''Max's sister was with me at the time of delivery. He told Max on the phone that our daughter has happened. He said that he will return soon, but after the news came to Koreona, he has avoided his plan. After a few weeks it came to know that he has got a good job in Australia and he has shifted there. I was still not sure that all this has happened to me. I was afraid of Single Mother's name. 'Standing with his family lily in the absence of Max. Lily wrote, "Max has messed up at 3 o'clock in one day at night that I think I got a big mistake. He apologized for himself. However, some common friends came to know that he is a girlfriend and he now lives with him. This whole time has been like a nightmare for me. The reason for my life is just my daughter. '
'I searched about such women on Google many nights whose husband left them when he was pregnant. I wanted to know if I am the first woman who has done something like that. I got to read many of my friends. ' Lily says that he is not sharing his story because his husband should come back, but wants to tell other women going through these circumstances that they are not alone. Lily says that good counselors and friends can come out of such a situation and in the end it starts recovering.